Dearly beloved: using Prince in your wedding ceremony

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How much do you love this idea from Jen and Kevin's Chicago wedding:

Our ceremony was non-religious (we wrote our own vows), and performed by a dear friend who got ordained via the internet. The ceremony kicked off with our officiant reading the intro lyrics to Prince's "Let's Go Crazy":

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here to day to get through this thing called life…

Those who recognized it laughed and loved it. The older members of our families never knew it wasn't traditional.

These days, we're guessing most older family members would recognize the song, but still: It's nice to have a little wink at the start of your ceremony that actually doesn't feel out of place at all!

Now THIS Is How You Plan A Drive By Birthday Party!

Pastel Rainbow Drive By Birthday PartyBusy blogger and Youtuber, Irene Sarah, (the birthday girl’s mom) wasn’t originally planning on too big of a celebration for her daughter’s 3rd birthday due to coronavirus. Like most of us, she was settling for something smaller + risk averse; probably a party of three, with her husband + daughter-of-honor. Instead, Shumaila, from So Cal Event Planners, proposed the idea of a drive by birthday party (of epic proportions)!

It’s the epitome of turning lemons into lemonade! What was originally supposed to be a small + simple affair, ended up being, quite literally, the dreamiest birthday party ever! Irene provided the theme of pastel rainbows, and her music producer husband provided a fun spin – dubbing it Iya’s Threenage Dream as a *genius* nod to Katy Perry’s song! From there, the colorful celebration was nothing short of magic.

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California Summer Camp Wedding

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This couple planned their ideal rustic wedding at the YMCA Camp Campbell in Boulder Creek, CA and the details are nothing short of amazing. From the photographer: A modern day love story that started with… Tinder. John mountain bikes and takes photos for fun. Lindsay rides horses and pretends to like to ride bikes. Both are supportive of each other’s sports. Lindsay’s horse likes to chase John on his bike when they ride trails together! How sweet is that? Thanks to Apollo Fotografie for sharing this wedding. Need even more ideas? Check out our article on 5 Reasons To Have Your Wedding At A Summer Camp or our Summer Camp Real Wedding Gallery.

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Sources – photography: Apollo Fotografie {Fine Art Wedding Photo & Video}// Hair Stylist:Tranquille Salon// Tuxedo and Mens Attire: Indochino// Cake Designer: The Buttery Bakery// Reception Venue: YMCA Camp Campbell// Equipment Rentals: Alexis Party Rental// Dress Designer: BHLDN//

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How to decide on next steps for your Covid-affected wedding

Deciding on what steps to take for a Covid-affected wedding has been one of the most frequent questions I’ve received over the last few months. The truth of the matter is, there are SO MANY variables and SO MANY unknowns- there really is no way to truly know or predict the future (anyone else think that we would’ve been in a better place by now?!). This is also something that my own family has been navigating for my sister’s upcoming November wedding. So needless to say, I get it. 

So when Sarah of Kindred Weddings and Events shared her thought process with me, I knew it was something that might be helpful for others. It’s a mix of identifying your wedding expectations and determining what is more important to you, and it’s brilliant. So, without further ado, take it away Sarah! 


HOW TO DECIDE ON NEXT STEPS FOR YOUR COVID-AFFECTED WEDDING

SARAH BLESSINGER, KINDRED WEDDINGS AND EVENTS


HAS COVID-19 CHANGED YOUR WEDDING EXPECTATIONS?? I hope it has!! I know so many couples are facing some new realities as public gatherings have been paused. Weddings, as they were, are not happening. However, you have OPTIONS that still include getting married. Now, it’s all about wading through the sea of expectations and riding the waves of your values!

You’ve probably felt that weight before when making any wedding planning decision. The desire to make everyone else happy with what you choose. When making decisions, we feel pressure to choose one thing over another because of expectations. These expectations can come from within, or from outside of ourselves.

Looking at this in terms of the wedding planning process, you may have certain expectations of what a wedding should cost based on your experiences (or lack thereof) with planning large life events. You might also have an expectation of what a wedding day should feel like based on what you believe or others have told you.

Outside expectations may come from friends and family members who mean well but tell you things need to be a certain way for your wedding to be a real wedding. Their expectations might also create fearful thoughts and worries that run through your mind, as you don’t know how someone else will respond when their expectations aren’t met. These types of expectations are also all around you in the media. Movies and reality tv shows depicting “perfect” wedding days and a bride getting everything she wants because it’s “her day”. 

How to decide on next steps for your Covid affected wedding via TheELD.com

When our inner expectations and outer expectations conflict, it can be easy to allow decision fatigue to settle in. There are three camps that you might fall into when reacting to making some big decisions.

Maybe it feels easier to sit and wait it out until a specific answer is clear.

Or you may feel the desire to let someone else make the final decision.

For others, they may decide to disengage their own expectations.

In our society today we can see all of these as very valid responses to the pandemic outbreak and the sudden halt of the wedding industry. If we look a little deeper at our natural responses, they can also teach us what we really value in the scenario. 

 

Sit and Wait it Out


Your expectations started somewhere. They come from deep within. Sometimes those expectations can be tossed aside easily, and other times it’s all you have to hold on to and you won’t loosen your grip. Holding out hope for the best possible outcome can create moments of tremendous growth in ourselves and our relationships. 

Let Someone Else Decide


Like many couples in this uncertain time, you may feel like your decision-making power has been wrenched away from you completely. There’s always someone new telling you what you are and are not allowed to do at this time. Rather than getting upset and pointing fingers, you might see this as a gift. An out. A scapegoat of strange sorts. Your plans are going to change and maybe that will be for the best- whether for your relationships, or your wedding as a whole. 

Release Expectations


We have been conditioned from a young age that sometimes things just don’t go our way. But still, we tend to focus on the things we can’t control in life creating strife and stress. Conversely, focusing on what you do have control over can absolutely release you from expectations that weigh you down. 

 

Let’s funnel this concept of releasing expectations into the new set of decisions today’s engaged couples are facing. In the case that your originally planned wedding cannot or may not happen, you will need to process and create a new plan based on what you value the most

Take a look at the sliding scale I created as tool below. You will see three categories – Experience, Time, Money. Each of these concepts is a value type that most couples will have to wrestle with as new decisions are made about their wedding day. Depending on where you fall on the value scale, you can begin to uncover the best next steps. 

How to decide on next steps for your Covid affected wedding via TheELD.com

Let’s take a look at Experience first.

If the most important thing for your wedding day is being able to celebrate with everyone exactly the way you originally pictured it, you value the full traditional wedding experience (or your original plan). In this case, you might choose to pause planning and reschedule your wedding to take place at a later date when travel and spending money are commonplace again. 

Next up, is Time.

If your wedding date has significant value to you, your biggest concern and motivation will probably be keeping the exact same date. You may opt for getting married in your living room or family backyard with minimal preparation and possibly no family or friends present. This is an example of valuing your time over the traditions of getting married.

Thirdly, let’s take a look at Money.

If you’ve already invested your money in your dream vendors, and you still want to do everything possible to work with them, maybe you shift your view of a wedding day around. Think about the value created in focusing on your marriage foundation, instead of focusing on a specific wedding day. In this case, you could decide to keep investing money and plan a dream elopement or intimate wedding for when small gatherings are allowed. By choosing to refocus on a different aspect of your wedding day (your relationships), the process (wedding planning) is outshone by the outcome (being married).

 

There are also multiple variations on many of these “expectation outcomes”. For example, valuing Time and Experience. You may right now value getting married quickly, but still want to celebrate all of your relationships and their impact on your journey to marriage later on. Many couples are opting to wed in living rooms, backyards, or the courthouse (if they are open). This process can be quick and efficient. But they are still planning a larger celebration to include their friends and family in their life change sometime in the future. Maybe it’s a vow renewal on their one year anniversary or a big dance party without the fanfare or traditions. 

An example of valuing Money and Experience: I know some couples have had to make the decision to postpone their wedding day because their finances have taken a huge hit in our current economy. They won’t be able to make payments while unemployed or on furlough. They also know they do not want to create hardships for their guests who may need to choose between health and finances as well in the coming months in order to travel across states to attend. It would break their hearts to not be able to celebrate fully with their guests in masks having to stay 6 feet apart. They have put value on Money and Experience in their specific circumstance. 

As an intimate wedding planner, I have been hearing from a record amount of couples recently who desire to still have a wedding day the second it’s safe to gather in small groups. They understand the health and financial implications facing our world right now and are willing to do something a little different. A small wedding could be anything from gathering 10 family members together on a cliffside in Big Sur, to spending a weekend together in a bed and breakfast reminiscing about life’s adventures and sharing marriage advice. These couples know the amount of time spent with their guests is of utmost importance, and they want to create the most amazing experience possible. In a situation like this, they are placing value on Experience and Money

 

When you value an experience, you expect everyone to be present and to have a good time.

 

When you value time, you expect to have what you want when you want it

 

When you value money, you expect to pay for something only when it meets all of your needs and desires

 

You can absolutely value ALL THREE THINGS – this is not an if/or situation! But digging deep into what it is you value about getting married can help you uncover the best way to proceed forward. 


PS: For even more, head over to Sarah’s website for a guide about How to Postpone + Downsize Your Wedding during COVID-19! 

 

About the Author

  • Intimate wedding planner and designer serving Southern California.

    Be it creating a logistics layout, or checking off items in a timeline I find so much joy in helping couples navigate the process of planning. My goal is to cheer you on, make planning easy & enjoyable, and provide you with an experience that leaves you feeling invested in & loved on so you can spend time loving on your special people.

    I’m a born & raised Cali girl, and call the San Fernando Valley home now with my two best friends – my nerdy & extremely patient husband Jeremiah and our snuggly kitty, River (who acts more like a dog!).

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Ultra Mod Boho Elopement Inspiration From Mexico City

Boho Mexico City ElopementDestination weddings, too, feel different now that many events involve strong planning considerations due to coronavirus. Nevertheless, we continue to press on! Today’s ultra mod boho elopement inspiration is fueled by the endurance of curated wedding celebrations, and the pure beauty of modern Mexico.

With a dynamic team of binational, Mexico-based wedding professionals, these artists have one focus; planning + designing gorgeous destination weddings in the wake of Coronavirus…even those that offer high tech, live streaming services so that guests can participate in the festivities from abroad!

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Connecticut Autumn Wedding

Fall Rustic Wedding

Taking place at the rustic Connecticut wedding venue, CandLight Farms Inn, this stunning fall wedding combines an outdoor rustic ceremony with a classic barn reception. From the photographer: Joelle and Josh filled their wedding day with the most personalized touches. They weren’t overtly one style over another, but incorporated everything from modern boldness. They made the old airplane hangar feel like home as they decorated it with vintage vases, muted florals, and served their favorite Trader Joe’s snacks for dessert. They were even surprised by a plane taking off during their ceremony. Thanks to Beet & Blossom for sharing this wedding!

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Sources – Photographer: Beet & Blossom//Venue: CandleLight Farms Inn, a Connecticut wedding venue //Dress Designer: Allure Bridal//Caterer: Trader Joe’s//Equipment Rentals: All Season//Equipment Rentals: Durkins Inc//Tuxedo and Mens Attire: Generation Tux//Tuxedo and Mens Attire: Express//Bridesmaid Dresses: Kennedy Blue//Dress Store: Julie Allen Bridals//Beauty: Rachel Toussaint//Floral Designer: Earth Blossoms Inc.//Cinema and Video: Millside Wedding Films//Event Planner: Simply Loved Weddings//DJ: Powerstation Events///

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Rustic Chic Wedding at Chanteclaire Farm

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Captured by Anna Grace Photography this beautiful Maryland wedding is filled with beauty! It was a beautiful fall day at Chanteclaire Farm as these two tied the knot overlooking the lake. They shared a tearful First Look before the ceremony and were full of joy the entire day. Both Shawn and Elise are also big WVU fans so they both wore stylish socks for the wedding. It was adorable! Their cute pup Cole was also at the wedding for a few pictures. He had a bandana around his neck that said, “My humans are getting married.”. So cute!

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sources -Photographer: Anna Grace Photography//Other: Mixbook//Tuxedo and Mens Attire: Calvin Klein//Bridesmaid Dresses: Allure Bridesmaids//DJ: Sounds Fun DJs//Reception Venue: chanteclaire farm//Floral Designer: Farmhouse Fete//Dress Designer: Allure Bridal//

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Elope in Maggie Sottero: Dress Inspiration from Real Brides

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Maggie Sottero is here to make your elopement dreams come true! Think you can’t rock a stunning and statement worthy dress “just because you’re eloping?” Think again! Maggie Sottero, the wedding dress line synonymous with romance and fresh design, is showing you elopement and intimate wedding inspiration from real brides! Yes, these beauties tied the knot in their dream dresses, and so can you!


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Boho Wedding with Moroccan Flare + Dried Palm Decor

Moroccan Inspired Wedding

If there’s one thing we know it’s that couples who love to travel will always find a way to mix inspiration from their adventures into the big day! Carlos + Melanie prove just that with their mix of travel and culture in a day that recalls the bustle of Morocco as much as it does quiet coastal nights. Here’s a little insight from Mel:

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